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Remember This: Spade Flush

When Joe was born in July of 1915, his grandfather announced, “This child is the future president of the nation.” At the time, Joe’s grandfather was the mayor of Boston, Massachusetts, and Joe’s father was the president of the Columbia Trust Bank in Boston. From a young age, Joe’s father groomed him for a career in politics with the presidency as his ultimate goal for his son. Joe’s eight siblings were all held to high standards, but Joe was the favorite child. If Joe had his own goals in life, he never acted on them.

In 1933, Joe graduated from the prestigious Choate School in Wallingford, Connecticut, and won the Harvard trophy, one of the most coveted of athletic prizes which was awarded annually to the member of the football team who best combined scholarship and sportsmanship. Although Joe was not the first person to win the trophy, his was the first name engraved upon it. Rather than going straight into college, Joe was one of 20 youths selected from over 900 applicants “for a year’s trip around the world on a four-masted schooner.” Joe and his group visited every continent and almost every European country on their tour. While in Germany, Joe praised Adolph Hitler and his forced sterilization program in a letter to his father. He said Hitler’s program was doing “away with many of the disgusting specimens of men which inhabit this earth.”

In the fall of 1934, Joe entered Harvard College and graduated with a Bachelor of Arts degree four years later. Joe then enrolled at Harvard Law School, the next logical step on his way to the presidency. With World War II looming on the horizon for Americans, Joe was among a group of Harvard students who formed the Harvard Committee Against Military Intervention in Europe and proclaimed, “Since, contrary to the assertions of the Committee for Militant Aid to Britain, there is every reason to believe that America is not now at war, it is incumbent upon us to consider the possibility of remaining at peace.”

War often brings opportunity. Despite his initial opposition to the war, Joe put his law studies on hold and enlisted in the U.S. Naval Reserve in June of 1944. Becoming a war hero would certainly help his political ambitions. The United States officially entered the war on December 7, 1941, when the Japanese attacked Pearl Harbor. As a pilot, Joe flew more than enough combat missions to allow him to return home. Fellow pilot Louis Papas said, “There was never an occasion for a mission that meant extra hazard that Joe did not volunteer. He had everybody’s unlimited admiration and respect for his courage, zeal, and willingness to undertake the most dangerous missions.” In August 1944, Joe volunteered to take part in Operation Aphrodite in which war-weary bombers were converted into radio-controlled missiles. The plan was that Joe and his co-pilot Wilford Willy would fly the “drone” bomber with over 21,000 pounds of explosives to an altitude of 2,000 feet at which point another airplane would gain complete radio control. Joe and Wilford would then arm the explosives and parachute out of the airplane over England. The crew in the second airplane would fly the radio-controlled bomber to its target. At 6:18 p.m. on August 12, Joe radioed, “Spade Flush,” the code phrase for the second airplane to take radio control of the drone. At 6:20, while Joe and Wilford awaited the signal to bail out, the bombs detonated prematurely.

Joe’s father’s dreams of his son becoming president ended with Joe’s death. Well, only for a short time. You see, had Joe not been killed during World War II, it is unlikely that his brother would have become president of the United States. Joe, Joseph Kennedy Jr., was the older brother of John F. Kennedy.

 

Sources:

Meriden Record, May 30, 1933, p.8.
Meriden Record, June 23, 1933, p.8.
The Boston Globe, July 20, 1934, p.3.
The Atlanta Constitution, December 18, 1940, p.28.
The Kansas City Times, August 15, 1944, p.3.
Meilan Solly, “The Top-Secret World War II Mission That Killed Joseph P. Kennedy Jr., the Heir Apparent to the Political Dynasty,” Smithsonian Magazine, August 12, 2024, https://www.smithsonianmag.com/history/the-top-secret-world-war-ii-mission-that-killed-joseph-pkennedy-heir-apparent-political-dynasty-180984857/#:~:text=Joe%20Jr.’s%20time%20in,Kennedy%2C%20who%20had%20intellectual%20disabilities.


Galileo’s January 7, 1610 Discovery: The Night That Changed Earth’s Place in the Universe

On January 7, 1610, an Italian mathematician named Galileo Galilei pointed his handmade telescope toward Jupiter and made an observation that would alter humanity’s understanding of the cosmos. What he saw that night—a trio of small, bright points near the planet—seemed innocuous at first. Yet those glowing dots would soon become evidence that Earth was not the center of the universe.

Galileo had been refining his telescope for months, improving its magnification from the early Dutch models. His January observations of Jupiter revealed something surprising: the points of light did not behave like distant stars. Over the next several nights, he watched them shift positions, sometimes appearing in different arrangements but always aligned closely with the planet.

By January 13, he identified a fourth object. He realized that the bodies orbited Jupiter itself. These were the four largest of Jupiter’s moons—Io, Europa, Ganymede, and Callisto—now known as the Galilean satellites.

This observation posed a significant challenge to the prevailing geocentric model, which held that all celestial bodies revolved around Earth. If moons orbited Jupiter, then Earth was clearly not the universal center. Galileo recorded the event in detailed sketches, noting the inconsistent positions of the moons to demonstrate their orbital motion.

What makes the moment historically striking is not simply the astronomical discovery, but the immediate tension it created across academic and religious communities. Galileo’s findings reached scholars quickly, prompting intense debate. His telescopic observations disrupted centuries of established thought and contributed to the broader scientific movement that shifted Europe from medieval cosmology to modern astronomy.

Although the conflict often overshadows the science, the January 7 discovery represented a profound expansion of human perspective. For the first time, observers had direct evidence that celestial bodies could orbit something other than Earth, providing powerful support for the emerging heliocentric model.

Scientific institutions today continue to mark January 7 as one of the pivotal dates in astronomy. Galileo’s sketches remain preserved in archives, offering a glimpse into the night an early telescope revealed worlds orbiting another planet—one of history’s most remarkable moments of discovery.


Notice of Death – January 6, 2026

Mary “Mickey” Campbell
11/03/1942 – 01/03/2026
Visitation: Friday January 9 from 2:00 – 6 :00 p.m. at Jenkins Funeral Home Chapel
Services: Saturday January 10 at 11:00 a.m. at Jenkins Funeral Chapel

Allie B. Campbell
06/26/1950 – 01/01/2026
Visitation: Friday January 9 from 2:00 – 6 :00 p.m. at Jenkins Funeral Chapel
Services: Saturday January 10 at 1:00 p.m. at N.W. Auditorium

Jerome Harville
08/13/1958 – 12/31/2025
Visitation : Friday January 9 from 2:00 -6:00 p.m. at Jenkins Funeral Home Chapel
Services : Saturday January 10 at 11: 00 a.m. at Elizabeth Full Gospel in Coushatta

Velma Davis
01/09/1933 – 12/30/2025
Visitation: Friday January 9 from 2:00 – 6:00 p.m. at Jenkins Funeral Home Chapel
Services: Saturday January 10, 2026 at 11:00 a.m. at Mt.Calvary B.C. in Zwolle

Rick Pharris
July 2, 1957 — December 18, 2025
Services: Wednesday, January 7 at 10:30 a.m. at Rose-Neath Funeral Home

James Lee Thomas
11/27/1955 – 12/28/2025
Visitation: Thursday, January 8 at 2:00 – 6:00 p.m. at Jenkins Funeral Home
Services: Graveside Friday January 9 at 11:00 a.m. at Creswell Cemetery

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