Cartoon of the Week: Accountability vs Assumptions

Everyone’s racing to hit the Assumptions button like it’s a reflex… while the big red FACTS buzzer just sits there, untouched.

Cue the game show music. Cue the dramatic pause.

Wrong answer, but thanks for playing.

In real life, jumping to conclusions doesn’t win prizes — it just spreads confusion. Accountability starts when we slow down, check the facts, and resist the urge to react first and think later.


Louisiana Sheriffs’ Scholarship applications open in DeSoto Parish

The DeSoto Parish Sheriff’s Office is encouraging graduating high school seniors to apply for the Louisiana Sheriffs’ Scholarship Program, which is now accepting applications.

Through the program, scholarships of up to $1,000 will be awarded to eligible students from each participating parish. The scholarships are funded through the Louisiana Sheriffs’ Honorary Membership Program and are intended to assist students with the rising costs of higher education, including tuition and related expenses. The awards are gifts and do not require repayment, and there are no restrictions on how the scholarship funds may be used.

To qualify, applicants must be permanent residents of Louisiana, plan to attend an in-state institution of higher education, and be enrolled as a full-time undergraduate student.

Applications are available online and must be downloaded in full, including the two required pages listed at the top of the application link. Completed applications must be submitted in person to the DeSoto Parish Sheriff’s Office, located at 205 Franklin Street in Mansfield.

The deadline to submit applications is April 1, 2026.


Ponderings: Lord have Mercy

Every so often, Scripture taps us on the shoulder and whispers a truth we’d rather not admit out loud—especially not in front of the church council. It’s this: if there’s a polished saint on one side of the room and a repentant rascal on the other, the Lord tends to wander over to the rascal. And He does it with a kind of divine twinkle that says, “Watch what grace can do.”

This is not a minor theme. It’s practically the Bible’s greatest hits album.

Take Jacob. If your church had a background-check policy, Jacob wouldn’t even get to hand out bulletins. He lies, cheats, manipulates, and still God says, “That one. I’ll build a nation from that one.” Esau is out there doing CrossFit and being responsible. Jacob is stirring soup and plotting. And God chooses him anyway.

Or Rahab—whose résumé would not get her anywhere near the nursery sign-up sheet. Yet she becomes the hero of Jericho and ends up in Jesus’ family tree. God seems to delight in saying, “Your past doesn’t disqualify you. It’s the very place My grace shines brightest.”

And then there’s David. A man after God’s own heart… and also the star of several episodes that would make Dateline blush. Yet God keeps restoring him, using him, singing over him. Meanwhile, Saul—tall, impressive, polished—gets sidelined for trying too hard to look holy.

Peter is the apostle who could derail a committee meeting in under thirty seconds. He denies Jesus, misunderstands half the parables, and once cut off a man’s ear. Jesus hands him the keys to the kingdom anyway.

Zacchaeus? A professional cheat. A man who would overcharge you for your own tithe envelope. Jesus sees him and says, “Lunch at your place.” The crowd is scandalized. Jesus is delighted.
And the woman at the well—five husbands, a complicated story, and a reputation that made her the talk of the town. Jesus chooses her as the first evangelist of Samaria. The disciples are baffled. Jesus is not.
God consistently gravitates toward: the messy over the manicured, the repentant over the respectable, the hungry over the holy-looking, and the honest sinner over the polished saint
Why? Because saints tend to bring their résumé. Scoundrels bring their need.
Saints say, “Look what I’ve done for You.”
Scoundrels say, “Lord, have mercy.”
And God has always been drawn to the sound of mercy being asked for.
If you feel like a spiritual overachiever, God loves you—but He may ask you to scoot over so a tax collector can sit down.
If you feel like a spiritual disaster, God loves you—and He’s probably already pulling up a chair.
The gospel is not “God helps those who help themselves.”
The gospel is “God helps those who can’t even pretend to help themselves.”
And thank the Lord for that, because most of us are one bad day away from enrolling in Jacob’s School of Holy Mischief.


North DeSoto Wrestler Abby Risinger makes history at state championships

North DeSoto High School wrestler Abby Risinger made school and parish history at the Louisiana High School Athletic Association state wrestling championships, becoming the first-ever North DeSoto female wrestler to earn a state medal.

Competing in the 152-pound weight class, Risinger finished fifth overall, securing her place on the podium and marking a milestone moment for both the North DeSoto wrestling program and DeSoto Parish. Her historic finish represents a significant achievement as women’s wrestling continues to grow across the state and region.

Coaches and supporters praised Risinger’s determination and resilience throughout the tournament, noting that her performance reflects not only her individual work ethic but also the expanding opportunities for female athletes within the North DeSoto wrestling program.

Risinger’s accomplishment sets a new standard for future women wrestlers at North DeSoto High School and serves as an inspiration to young athletes across DeSoto Parish. School officials and community members alike recognized the achievement as a proud moment for the parish and a sign of continued growth and success within the district’s wrestling program.


North DeSoto Wrestling showcases dominance at LHSAA State Championships

The North DeSoto High School wrestling team delivered an impressive showing at the Louisiana High School Athletic Association (LHSAA) State Wrestling Championships, with multiple state champions, runner-up finishes, and podium placements highlighting the program’s continued excellence.

Leading the way were Sy Stoute (113 pounds), Jacob Kershaw (138 pounds), and Hayden Bell (215 pounds), each capturing LHSAA State Championship titles in their respective weight classes. Their performances underscored North DeSoto’s strength across a wide range of divisions and solidified the team’s presence among the state’s elite wrestling programs.

Adding to the team’s success, Connor Locke (132 pounds) finished as the LHSAA State Runner-Up, while Jayden Locke (126 pounds) also earned a runner-up finish after advancing to the championship match in his weight class. Bryce Chambers (144 pounds) likewise claimed a state runner-up title, contributing valuable points to the Griffins’ overall team standing.

North DeSoto’s depth was further evident with strong podium finishes across additional weight classes. William Erdelac (165 pounds), LJ Williams (150 pounds), and Andrew Arinder (175 pounds) each placed fourth at the state level, while Kade Tinsley (285 pounds) secured a fifth-place finish in the heavyweight division.

Coaches praised the team’s performance as a reflection of the athletes’ dedication, discipline, and commitment throughout the season. With multiple champions and a deep lineup of state medalists, the North DeSoto wrestling program continues to set a high standard for success and remains a source of pride for the school and community.


The days are gone when the average angler can make it as a pro

By Steve Graf    

Lately, during the extremely cold weather that we experienced a couple of weeks ago, I took some time to watch a few fishing podcasts. There are a handful of programs that I follow from top anglers within the world of professional bass fishing.

One of these is “After the Cast” with Major League Fishing pros Andy Montgomery, Edwin Evers and Ott DeFoe, strong personalities and great reputations for not only being outstanding anglers, but good Christians.

Their podcast is a behind the scenes look at the daily rigors that tournament anglers go through from the travel they face, to practice and tournament days.

But they’ll also sit down and talk about hot topics going on in bass fishing. They’re not afraid to voice their opinions and share their thoughts which makes the podcast very interesting to watch.

Another podcast I follow is “Zaldangerous,” also known as “The Bilge,” a program with Elite Series angler and Texas pro Chris Zaldain and his wife, Trait. These two do not shy away from controversial topics and are not afraid to challenge the establishments of B.A.S.S. or Major League Fishing (MLF) when it comes to rules violations or recent decisions that have been made with regards to a tournament organization.

Both podcasts, “After the Cast” and “Zaldangerous,” are programs that anyone would enjoy. They’re both great at shedding light on the hot topics in professional bass fishing while discussing possible solutions.

These are people “living the dream” by fishing for a living. They travel like gypsies and caravan across the country, fishing the best fisheries in America. They discuss today’s anglers and how to navigate the demands of professional bass fishing.

But their biggest concern is trying to provide for their families as a pro fisherman. So many of today’s anglers face obstacles that previous generations did not. First and foremost, how to navigate social media. This is a problem the older generation of anglers never had to deal with.

All three professional bass tournament organizations require that all anglers participate in social media. This can be in many forms like a podcast, Facebook page, YouTube videos, Tik Tok or maybe an Instagram account.

In today’s business world, it’s important that anglers have a social media presence as a way of promoting sponsor product and themselves as well. Of course, we all know that social media can be a place of controversy with people who are looking to discredit or cast blame on others for a particular situation.

Having a great social media presence is all about how many “clicks” or “likes” you’re getting with the posts you’re making. A really good account can translate into valuable dollars. It’s also another avenue where anglers can make money to help supplement their income.

But here’s a question — can the average angler make it as a professional bass fisherman today? The biggest issue facing anglers today are with sponsors; there just are not enough to go around. Sponsors are a critical part of how anglers make a living and provide for their families. Tournament winnings are just a bonus for anglers and are not factored into their annual budgets.

The fishing industry in general is just not big enough to support all the anglers looking to fish professionally. Most are stretched very thin with regards to how many anglers they can afford to sponsor.

The industry is short on sponsorship dollars with there being three major professional bass fishing organizations — Major League Fishing (MLF), B.A.S.S. and the new National Professional Fishing League (NPFL).

Anglers today are having to think outside the box and look at nonendemic companies that may have never had a presence in the bass fishing market.

Back during the old FLW days (2000 to 2012), there was Walmart, Land of Lakes, Kellogg’s, Snickers, Castro Motor Oil and many more that sank huge amounts of money into many of the old FLW Tour anglers.

But ever since the demise of the FLW Tour around 2012, these sponsors have chosen to walk away and are no longer interested in this market, leaving a huge sponsorship void for anglers to pursue.

Less sponsors means a bigger strain on anglers’ budgets as they try to navigate the costs involved with making a living as a professional.

Bottom line is this: with a shortage of sponsors it makes it very difficult for the average angler to participate on the professional level. It’s sad but it’s starting to look like only those anglers who have money, have a good financial support system like mom or dad, or wealthy grandparents will be the anglers who can compete on bass fishing’s highest level.

As the old saying goes, “money can’t buy happiness,” but it can buy you a spot on a bass pro tour!

Contact Steve at sgraf26@yahoo.com


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Remember This: Mind Your Temper, Johnny

By Brad Dison

In 1957, after years of bit parts in numerous films and television shows, Thomas was cast as Lana Turner’s love interest in the film “Another Time, Another Place.” In the second week of October 1957, Lana’s boyfriend Johnny Stompanato, a former marine who was a bodyguard and enforcer for mob boss Mickey Cohen, flew from Los Angeles to Cornwall, England, to be with her for the remainder of filming. For three months, Johnny watched from the sideline as the chemistry between Thomas and Lana grew. Thomas and Lana played their parts so well for the camera that Johnny became increasingly suspicious and jealous. Around New Year’s Day 1958, while Lana and Thomas were filming an intimate scene, Johnny’s jealousy could take no more. He rushed on screen, pointed a pistol at Thomas’s head, and threatened him to stay away from Lana. In a split-second move, Thomas forcefully disarmed Johnny. Thomas was aware of Johnny’s underworld connections and knew to expect a reprisal of some sort.

Lana was not a pushover by any means. When her marriage to Lex Barker broke down six months earlier, she forced him at gunpoint to leave her home. Lana had Johnny removed from the film set and contacted police who quickly deported Johnny from England. He was back in Hollywood by January 4, 1958. Despite this incident, Lana and Johnny remained on speaking terms. According to letters between Lana and Johnny, Lana wanted space. In a letter dated January 15, 1958, Lana wrote to Johnny, “You must let me alone in my own world for a while, to rest, think, rest, think… I need the time and a different place to funnel thru all the emotional turmoil I’ve been through.” Johnny had no intention of giving her the space she requested. He wanted to marry. Johnny wrote to Lana, “Let me prove that you and I belong together.” In another letter he wrote, “Every second of every day since you have been gone, I’ve thought of nothing but you and your kisses.” Johnny persuaded Lana’s 14-year-old daughter Cheryl to help convince Lana to marry him. On a letter dated April 3, 1958, Cheryl wrote to Johnny, “I just got your letter this morning because I was home for the weekend. How have you been? …When are you all coming back? Soon, I Hope. Mother and I really had a wonderful time in Europe.” She ended the letter, “Love ya and miss ya loads, Cherie.” She only had a short time to wait.

On the following day, April 4, Cheryl and Lana were at their home in Beverly Hills when Johnny stopped by for another attempt at convincing Lana to rekindle their romance and marry him. Johnny’s sweetness quickly turned to rage when he realized she could not be convinced. Johnny grabbed Lana and shook here while he cursed and threatened her. Cheryl heard Johnny yell, “I’ll get you if it takes a day, a week, or a year. I’ll cut your face up. I’ll stomp you. And if I can’t do it myself, I’ll find somebody who will.” As Johnny continued his tirade over Lana, Cheryl grabbed a 10-inch butcher knife and sank it to the hilt into Johnny’s abdomen. He died moments later. Cheryl was not prosecuted because a coroner’s jury deemed the killing a justifiable homicide. Mob boss Mickey Cohen linked Johnny’s death back to the altercation in which Thomas disarmed Johnny in a move similar to what we would expect to see in a James Bond film. Well, Thomas eventually became James Bond. His full name was Thomas Sean Connery.

Sources:

1. San Francisco Chronicle, October 1, 1957, p.25.

2. Berwick, PA., Enterprise, October 15, 1957, p.4.

3. The New London, Connecticut Evening Day, January 4, 1948, p.16.

4. The Akron Beacon Journal, April 5, 1958, p.1.

5. The Oregonian, April 11, 1958, p.10.

6. Los Angeles Times, April 12, 1958, p.1.


Whitney Houston’s Birthday and the Voice That Changed Pop Music Forever

February 11 marks the birthday of one of the most influential voices in modern music history: Whitney Houston. Born on this date in 1963, Houston’s impact on pop culture extends far beyond record sales, reshaping the sound of popular music and redefining what vocal excellence looked like for generations that followed.

Rising to fame in the mid-1980s, Houston quickly became a cultural force. Her 1985 self-titled debut album produced multiple chart-topping singles and introduced audiences to a voice that blended pop accessibility with gospel power. At a time when female pop artists were often boxed into narrow roles, Houston crossed genres effortlessly, finding success on pop, R&B, adult contemporary, and international charts simultaneously.

Her influence wasn’t limited to music. Houston’s presence on television and in film helped expand representation in mainstream entertainment. Her starring role in The Bodyguard (1992) cemented her status as a crossover superstar, while the film’s soundtrack became one of the best-selling albums of all time. Songs like “I Will Always Love You” became cultural touchstones, played at weddings, graduations, sporting events, and moments of public mourning.

February 11 also invites reflection on Houston’s broader cultural legacy. She broke barriers for Black women in pop music during an era when radio formats were more rigidly segregated. Her success opened doors for countless artists who followed, including Mariah Carey, Beyoncé, Jennifer Hudson, and Adele, all of whom have cited Houston as a major influence.

Even decades after her peak, Houston’s voice remains a benchmark. Viral clips of her live performances continue to circulate online, often sparking renewed appreciation from younger audiences discovering her for the first time. Vocal coaches, music critics, and fans alike frequently reference her control, tone, and emotional delivery as unmatched.

While Houston’s life also included public struggles, her artistic legacy continues to overshadow controversy. Each year on February 11, fans around the world revisit her catalog, celebrate her achievements, and reflect on how deeply her music is woven into shared cultural memory.

In an industry that constantly evolves, Whitney Houston’s voice remains timeless — and February 11 serves as a reminder of the day one of pop culture’s greatest legends was born.


Notice of Death – February 10, 2026

Roderick Wilbert
02/27/1974 – 02/05/2026
Visitation: Wednesday February 11 from 2:00 – 6:00 p.m. at Jenkins Funeral Home Chapel
Services: Thursday February 12 at 11:00 a.m. at Jenkins Funeral Home Chapel

Eugene Washington
02/07/1944 – 02/04/2026
Services: Saturday February 14 at 11:00 a.m. at Union Spring B.C.

O.C. Thomas
02/23/1942 – 02/02/2026
Services: Saturday February 14 at 11: 00 a.m. at Zion Hill #2 B.C.

J.C. Lil – Bud Williams – Jr.
08/06/1936 – 02/02/2026
Visitation : Thursday February 12 from 2:00 – 6:00 p.m. at Jenkins Funeral Home Chapel
Services : Friday February 13 at 11:00 a.m. at Jenkins Funeral Home Chapel

Kenneth Ray England
August 28, 1968 – February 4, 2026
Services: March 7 at 2:00 p.m. at San Patricio Baptist Church

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Weekly arrest report: 01/26 – 02/01

The attached report displays all individuals charged over the last 7 days, including those arrested by summons who may not have been booked directly into the Detention Center. The attached arrests have been made by DeSoto Parish Sheriff’s Office (DPSO), Mansfield Police Department (MPD), and Louisiana State Police (LSP.) An arrest is indication that probable cause existed during an alleged offense. All suspects are presumed innocent until proven guilty in a court of law. Comments are disabled on crime related posts to ensure public safety.

Early morning traffic stop in DeSoto Parish leads to drug seizure, firearm recovery, and arrests

A routine traffic stop conducted by a patrol deputy with the DeSoto Parish Sheriff’s Office early Friday morning resulted in the seizure of a large quantity of suspected narcotics, a stolen firearm, and multiple items commonly associated with drug distribution.

According to authorities, just after 1:00 a.m. on January 30, 2026, a deputy initiated a traffic stop near the Check-Out gas station in Logansport, Louisiana. During the subsequent investigation, deputies located and seized approximately one-half pound of suspected methamphetamine, along with suspected Farmapram (alprazolam) pills.

In addition to the suspected narcotics, deputies recovered a Taurus .38 Special revolver, several rounds of ammunition, two digital scales, small plastic baggies, a grinder, $680 in U.S. currency, and multiple cellular phones.

Sheriff’s officials noted that the suspected meth alone carries an estimated street value exceeding $20,000. All seized narcotics will be submitted for laboratory analysis.

As a result of the investigation, two individuals were arrested and booked into the DeSoto Detention Center.

Brandon Wayne Palmer, 27, of Haughton, Louisiana, faces the following charges: Illegal Possession of Stolen Firearms; Possession of a Firearm by a Convicted Felon; Possession of a Firearm in the Presence of a Controlled Dangerous Substance (CDS); Manufacture/Distribution of CDS II; Possession of a Schedule I CDS; Possession of CDS II; Possession of CDS IV; Possession of Drug Paraphernalia; Driving Under Suspension; Violation of One-Way Traffic; and License Plate Not on Display.

Alexis Cheyenne Benzinger, 26, of Keithville, Louisiana, was charged with Illegal Possession of Stolen Firearms; Possession of a Firearm in the Presence of a CDS; Manufacture/Distribution of CDS II; Possession of a Schedule I CDS; Possession of CDS II; Possession of CDS IV; and Possession of Drug Paraphernalia.

The investigation remains ongoing, and additional charges may be filed pending further review and laboratory results.

All suspects are presumed innocent until proven guilty in a court of law.


DeSoto Parish Sheriff’s Office announces series of narcotics arrests

The DeSoto Parish Sheriff’s Office continues its efforts to combat illegal drug activity across the parish, announcing several recent arrests made by deputies with the Street Level Interdiction Unit (S.L.I.U.) and the DPSO Narcotics Task Force.

Sheriff Jayson Richardson said the arrests are part of ongoing proactive enforcement and street-level interdiction aimed at reducing the distribution of narcotics in local communities.

Among those taken into custody:

Ernest W. Boyd, 52, of Grand Cane, was arrested on December 18, 2025, by S.L.I.U. deputies and booked into the DeSoto Detention Center on charges of possession of Schedule II methamphetamine, driving under suspension, and no license plate.

Matthew B. Dubose, 51, of Mansfield, was arrested January 9, 2026, by S.L.I.U. deputies and charged with possession of Schedule II ecstasy, possession of marijuana, and a traffic violation related to turn signals.

Jason C. Roshto, 48, of Stonewall, was taken into custody January 10, 2026, by S.L.I.U. deputies and booked on charges of possession of Schedule II Adderall, possession of marijuana, and a traffic control signal violation.

Rickey Mayhew, 27, of Vidor, Texas, was arrested January 14, 2026, by the DPSO Narcotics Task Force and charged with possession of Schedule II methamphetamine.

Michael Williams, 59, of Shreveport, was taken into custody January 15, 2026, by S.L.I.U. deputies and booked on charges of possession of Schedule II methamphetamine, possession of drug paraphernalia, and following too closely.

Sheriff Richardson praised the continued dedication of DPSO narcotics investigators and interdiction deputies, emphasizing that aggressive enforcement remains a priority in protecting public safety across DeSoto Parish.

Officials also reminded the public that all individuals are presumed innocent until proven guilty in a court of law, and that arrests indicate only that probable cause existed at the time of the alleged offenses.

The Sheriff’s Office encourages residents to report suspected drug activity as part of ongoing efforts to keep communities safe.


Sunny stretch and gradual warm-up expected across DeSoto Parish

DeSoto Parish residents can expect mostly sunny skies and steadily warming temperatures over the next several days, according to the National Weather Service.

Wednesday will be mostly sunny with highs near 55 degrees and a north wind between 5 and 10 mph keeping conditions cool. Skies will clear Wednesday night, with temperatures falling to around 33 degrees.

Sunshine continues on Thursday, with highs near 58 degrees, followed by clear skies overnight and lows around 40 degrees.

A warmer pattern sets in on Friday, as sunny conditions push afternoon temperatures to about 68 degrees. Friday night will remain mostly clear, with lows near 41 degrees.

The pleasant weather holds through the weekend, with Saturday bringing sunny skies and highs near 67 degrees, and overnight temperatures around 43 degrees.

By Sunday, mostly sunny conditions return with temperatures climbing to near 69 degrees, offering a mild and comfortable close to the week.

While mornings will remain cool, the extended forecast points to improving conditions and plenty of sunshine across DeSoto Parish.


DeSoto Parish Sheriff’s Office receives funding for new police interceptor

The DeSoto Parish Sheriff’s Office was awarded State Senate Appropriation funding to purchase a new 2025 Ford Mustang GT Police Interceptor, a move officials say reflects the success of the department’s Traffic Division and its ongoing efforts to improve roadway safety.

The vehicle, purchased locally within DeSoto Parish, will be added to the Traffic Division as part of a broader crash reduction strategy that has already produced significant results.

Just a few years ago, DeSoto Parish ranked among the highest in northern Louisiana for fatal traffic crashes, averaging between 12 and 15 deaths annually. In response, the Sheriff’s Office created a dedicated Traffic Division focused on speeding complaints, hit-and-run cases, and crash investigations.

Those targeted efforts paid off in 2024, when the parish recorded zero traffic-related fatalities.

Statewide, only three parishes achieved that milestone — and DeSoto Parish was the only one with a major interstate highway running through it.

State Senator Thomas Pressly recognized the department’s progress by advocating for and securing funding to strengthen the traffic safety program.

“This investment is about expanding what’s already working,” officials said. “It’s not a replacement — it’s a reinforcement of a strategy that is saving lives.”

The Mustang will be operated by Sgt. Jimmie Minor, who has completed specialized Ford Performance Driving Course training designed specifically for the vehicle’s handling, braking, and performance.

Additionally, all Traffic Division deputies have undergone advanced training in crash response, investigations, and vehicle handling.

The high-performance patrol car will be used to address speeding in high-risk areas, investigate crashes and hit-and-runs, and support proactive traffic safety initiatives across the parish.

Beyond enforcement, the Sheriff’s Office says the vehicle will also serve as a visible community engagement tool, encouraging conversations with drivers, students, and residents about safe driving habits and the serious consequences of reckless behavior.

Sheriff Jayson Richardson expressed appreciation to Senator Pressly for supporting the department’s life-saving efforts and praised the Traffic Division for its data-driven approach to improving roadway safety.

“This investment isn’t about a vehicle,” Richardson said. “It’s about sustaining a proven strategy that’s keeping families safe and saving lives in DeSoto Parish.”


Ponderings: The Party is the Prelude

I think spending a week inside avoiding the dangers of sleetmageddon put me in a reflective mood.

Shouts of “Throw me something, Mister!” are echoing across our state again. Krewes are loading up their floats, folks are dusting off tuxes and gowns for the Balls, and everybody’s loosening up their throwing arms like they’re training for the Saints’ draft. In Louisiana, this can only mean one thing: Lent is sneaking up on us.

Most places prepare for Lent with quiet reflection. Down here, we crank up the brass band. When you see purple, green, and gold beads hanging from the power lines like Spanish moss, you know the season of repentance is right around the corner. Only in Louisiana do we get ready for fasting by throwing a monthlong party.

Lent, of course, is tied to the ancient discipline of fasting. Ever tried it? That’s where all those fishonFriday stories come from. McDonald’s once even tried a pineapple sandwich to help the Friday fasters. They won’t do that again—but somehow the McRib keeps coming back like a stray cat that knows you’re a soft touch.

But fasting isn’t about food so much as it’s about reality. It’s the spiritual posture of remembering just how dependent we are on God—choosing hunger so we can feel our deeper hunger. The truth is, we are always desperate for God; it’s just that our comforts and routines do a pretty good job of hiding it.

Fasting cuts through the camouflage.

Fasting is a bold declaration that our stomachs don’t get the final say, that our bodies don’t get to boss our spirits around. In a culture that worships indulgence, fasting is downright rebellious. Yet Jesus fasted. He expected His disciples to fast. Scripture mentions fasting more often than baptism. It’s not a fringe practice—it’s a foundational one.

In the Bible, people fasted for guidance, for grief, for deliverance, for clarity, for dedication, for worship. And Jesus, in His Sermon on the Mount, told His followers to fast quietly—not with ashes smeared on their heads but with clean faces and anointed hair. In other words: don’t look miserable. Look like someone who knows God sees what no one else does.

The early church took this seriously. Clement of Alexandria tells us believers fasted on Wednesdays and Fridays. By 340 AD, Athanasius tied fasting to remembering Jesus’ wilderness journey. John Wesley even refused to ordain Methodist leaders who didn’t fast weekly. (Yes, I know. I’m preaching to myself here.)

Jesus fasted. The early church fasted. Christians throughout history have fasted. So why do so few of us do it now? Maybe some are fasting quietly and we simply don’t know. Or maybe we’ve let the noise of our culture drown out a practice that once shaped the saints.

So as the parades roll, the beads fly, and the king cakes multiply, remember this: the reason for the revelry is that Lent is coming. The party is the prelude.

And it makes me wonder—how different would our faith look if we took the fast of Lent as seriously as we take the fun of Mardi Gras?


The College Crossroads: Finding Clarity in the Chaos of Admissions

A family’s guide to navigating the biggest decision of a young adult’s life, and why a single Saturday in Natchitoches might hold the answer.

By Cole Gentry, Chief Marketing Officer at Northwestern State University

The kitchen table is often where the panic sets in. It starts with a stack of glossy mailers, each promising the best four years of a student’s life. Then come the spreadsheets, the deadlines, and the quiet, gnawing questions that keep parents awake at 3 a.m. Can we afford this? Will they be safe? Is this the place where my child becomes the person they are meant to be?

For high school seniors, the pressure is immediate. They are standing on the cliff of adulthood, trying to discern their future from a website or a brochure. For families, the challenge is different. You bring the weight of experience. You understand the long-term implications of student loans and the reality of living away from home. You want to protect them, yet you know you must let them lead.

This tension between parental wisdom and student autonomy is natural, but it does not have to be stunned by anxiety. The remedy is not found in more paperwork. It is found in experience. It is found in stepping onto a campus, walking the grounds, and feeling the texture of the community.

That is the philosophy behind Northwestern State University’s N-Side View Day.

On Saturday, February 28, 2026, NSU opens its doors for an event designed to cut through the noise of the college search. It is an invitation to move beyond the statistics and step into the reality of life in Natchitoches.

“Your future is calling and it begins here,” says Emily Miller, Director of Recruiting. “We want students and families to see not just what Northwestern offers, but how it feels to be part of our community.”

Finding the right college is about finding a value match. It is about aligning a student’s ambition with an institution’s culture. This is difficult to do from a distance. You need to see the residence halls. You need to sit in the classrooms. You need to look a professor in the eye and ask them how they will mentor your student.

N-Side View Day provides that access. It transforms the abstract idea of “going to college” into a tangible plan.

The day is structured to address the specific anxieties that families face. Financial stability is often the largest hurdle. Many students, and honestly, many parents, are inexperienced in managing large-scale finances. During the event, financial aid experts break down the process, comparing packages and explaining scholarships in simple terms. It turns a conversation about debt into a strategy for investment.

Academically, the event allows students to explore over 100 degree programs. This is where the student takes the lead. While parents look for security, students look for inspiration. They can connect directly with faculty, asking the questions that matter to them.

“We have designed N-Side View Day to go beyond information. It’s an experience that inspires,” Miller explains. “Families leave with clarity, confidence, and excitement about the future.”

There is also the undeniable influence of place. Natchitoches is Louisiana’s oldest city, a place where history and progress coexist. The campus reflects that balance. It feels grounded. It feels like home. When families visit, they often find that their preconceived notions shift. A parent might have envisioned a different path but seeing their student light up while walking through Alost Hall changes the conversation. It validates that the student knows themselves better than anyone else.

NSU President James T. Genovese views this day as a critical first step in a lifelong relationship. “We are committed to preparing students not just for jobs, but for meaningful lives of impact,” Genovese says. “N-Side View Day is a chance to experience that mission firsthand.”

The event acknowledges that this transition is emotional. Having family support provides a safety net that fosters confidence. By visiting together, you are not making the decision for them; you are standing beside them as they make it.

The day concludes with a classic collegiate experience: a Demon Baseball game. Every attendee receives a free ticket. It is a chance to sit in the stands, eat a hot dog, and watch the B-Stro Boys compete on the diamond. It is a moment to stop worrying about the application process and start enjoying the atmosphere.

“NSU is Louisiana’s best-kept secret,” Miller says. “Once students step on campus, they feel it. They know this is where they belong.”

The labyrinth of college admissions is navigable. It requires patience, honest conversation, and a willingness to explore. It requires a trip to Natchitoches.

Register today for N-Side View Day at www.nsu.la/nsideviewday.

What: N-Side View Day
Where: Northwestern State University, Natchitoches, LA
When: Saturday, February 28, 2026
Includes: Campus tours, academic sessions, financial aid guidance, and Demon Baseball.
Register: www.nsu.la/nsideviewday


Cartoon of the Week: Weather Mood Swings

Louisiana weather has never been great at picking a lane — and that’s the joke. One minute you’re digging out a winter coat, the next you’re debating flip-flops, all while keeping an umbrella close just in case. This week’s cartoon leans into that familiar mood swing, featuring a character dressed for every season at once, staring suspiciously at the forecast like it personally betrayed them.

It’s a lighthearted nod to a shared Southern experience: the daily ritual of checking the weather and still being wildly unprepared.


LSU AgCenter now accepting applications for Summer Internship Program

The LSU AgCenter is once again offering summer internship opportunities for college students interested in learning more about Cooperative Extension work across Louisiana, and students in DeSoto Parish are encouraged to apply before the upcoming deadline.

The program is open to current or rising college juniors, seniors, and graduate students who are interested in agriculture, natural resources, family and consumer sciences, extension education, or related fields. Interns will spend the summer working alongside LSU AgCenter educators at parish Extension offices, helping plan and conduct community programs.

According to the LSU AgCenter, there are 20 internship positions available statewide. Interns will earn $15 per hour for 8 to 10 weeks, with a maximum of 400 hours. Participants will also complete a project, written report, and video highlighting their experience, and may be eligible to receive college credit with advisor approval.

Applications opened in December and will close March 1, 2026, at 11:59 p.m. CST.
Students interested in applying or learning more can visit lsuagcenter.com/extintern or contact larcemont@agcenter.lsu.edu for additional information.

Officials say the program offers hands-on experience and a valuable look into how Extension services support Louisiana communities — making it an excellent opportunity for students considering careers in education, agriculture, and public service.

Those interested are encouraged to apply soon, as positions are limited.


The lessons we learn through sports

By Steve Graf    

Over the years of playing both baseball and football, along with fishing tournaments, so many of my life’s lessons have come from playing or participating in sports. Some lessons we learn the hard way and some we learn through experience. Today, we’ll look at a couple of lessons I learned even when things didn’t always go the way I wanted.

This first lesson I learned came very early in my baseball career. In my hometown of Mt. Pleasant, Texas, my baseball playing days started at the age of 7 in what was called Pee Wee League.

Spending my first summer in MP with my aunt and uncle, we lived on the west side of the town.

It was an awesome neighborhood where everyone knew each other. Every day we played baseball on a sandlot or on one of the neighbor’s side yards. Several windows were broken during these summer battles and like most kids our age, trouble wasn’t far behind.

Then the day came for Pee Wee League tryouts. There were six teams in the league with a lot of very good players. This is where a man by the name of Coach James Stansell shaped and instilled confidence in me to be the best baseball player I could be.

The day before tryouts, he asked me to pull back during the evaluation. He wanted me to “look bad” so that other coaches would not draft me onto their team. Being the new kid on the block, he did not want the other coaches knowing the ability I had.

This was hard for me to go out and miss ground balls and look silly on fly balls as if I had never played before. But I played along and pretended I could not even throw a baseball much less catch one.

Lo and behold, Coach Stansell called later that night and told me that I was going to play for him and the Yankees!

The best part of all this was that our entire neighborhood, including my best friend Kevin, was going to be playing for the Yankees. And oh, how good we were! Over the course of two seasons, the Yankees went 24-0 for two straight years and won back-to-back city championships!

Then at the age of 9 it was time to move up to the next level called Minor League. But then there was a draft, and this time there was no fooling the coaches into thinking I could not play.

When it came to the draft, the team that finished last in the league the year before got the first pick of the draft, which meant it would be the Tigers.

Tigers head coach Ted Leach took advantage of this opportunity and picked me first in the draft. This was the last team I wanted to get picked by, because they were horrible and for the previous two years hardly ever won a game.

When Coach Leach came to my house and told me I was his first pick, I wanted to cry but didn’t. They were absolutely the worst team every year! But he assured me that these Tigers were not going to be losers.

Then later that same night, Coach Stansell came by the house and explained how he was not able to draft me. But adding salt to the wound was the fact that Coach Stansell was able to get every Yankee player that went 24-0 over those two years, including my best friend (Kevin), to play for him and the Cardinals.

When he told me this, the tears began to flow, and I thought my world was coming to an end. How in the world was I going play without all my buddies? How was I going to face them daily on the sandlot while being the only one not on the Cardinals?

I was going to play for those losing Tigers while the Cardinals and all my friends would probably dominate the league and win the championship. I was crushed and did not know how to handle this. I was now the neighborhood outsider as a Tiger and not a Cardinal!

But this is where one of life’s lessons began to take shape. After my first practice with the Tigers, I realized that maybe we weren’t going to be that bad. In fact, we might actually be pretty darn good. This is when I took ownership and decided I would do whatever I could to help my team win.

Lo and behold, at the end of the season we played the Cardinals for the City Championship. We had one loss in that season before those games, and even won a game in the best of three championship series as I pitched and beat the Cardinals. But the Cardinals prevailed, and we finished league runner-up both years.

So, what was the lesson I learned? Things are never as bad or as good as you think they are. You must believe in yourself and always think you’re just as good as any player on the field. Believe that “you” can make a difference on whatever team you’re playing on. Go out, compete, and prove to yourself that you are and can be a winner no matter what team you’re on.

Over the years I’ve heard how kids quit playing a particular sport because they did not like the coach. One thing I’ve always told these kids and their parents is, “it doesn’t matter who the coach is because you don’t play for the coach; you play for yourself and your teammates.” Adolf Hitler could have been my coach, and it would not have changed how much I love the game or how hard I played.

The next lesson learned was to be positive and have a good attitude, no matter what. Some things in life you cannot control, but the one thing you have total control over is your attitude.

Playing sports has taught me that life doesn’t always go the way we want, but going through trials and tribulations help shape us into the kind of person we want to be.

Contact Steve at sgraf26@yahoo.com


The Health Hub: Oatmeal Raisin Pecan Cookies

By Nutrition Agent Erin Stockton

Recipe of the Month: Oatmeal Raisin Pecan Cookies
Provided by Elizabeth Martin with the LSU AgCenter
Serves: 24 | Prep Time: 15 minutes | Cook Time: 10-12 minutes

These oatmeal raisin pecan cookies are a perfect treat to satisfy your sweet tooth without the guilt. Made with wholesome ingredients like rolled oats and pecans, they are a heart-healthy choice that also provides fiber to help manage blood sugar levels. The raisins and applesauce add a natural sweetness, while the sucralose sugar blend keeps the recipe diabetes friendly. Enjoy these cookies as a snack or dessert perfect for family gatherings or an on-the-go treat.

Ingredients:
1/2 cup raisins
1 cup unsalted margarine, softened
1/4 cup sucralose sugar blend
1 large egg
1/2 cup unsweetened applesauce
1 teaspoon vanilla extract
2 cups all-purpose flour
1 teaspoon ground cinnamon
3/4 teaspoon salt
3/4 teaspoon baking powder
1/2 cup uncooked rolled oats
1/2 cup pecans, chopped

Instructions:
Preheat the oven to 350°F.
Place raisins in a small microwaveable bowl and cover them with water. Microwave on high for 2-3 minutes. Let raisins soak for 10-15 minutes. Drain well and set aside.
In a large bowl, use the back of a wooden spoon to cream the margarine and sucralose until just blended. Mix in the egg, applesauce, and vanilla.
In a medium bowl, stir together flour, cinnamon, salt, and baking powder. Gradually stir the flour mixture into the margarine mixture just until moistened.
Gently fold in the oats, pecans, and raisins.
Using two tablespoons to scoop the dough, drop spoonfuls about 2 inches apart on a large baking sheet or two small baking sheets to make 24 cookies. Lightly flatten each cookie with a fork.
Bake for 10-12 minutes, or until bottoms are golden brown.

Erin Stockton is a Nutrition Agent with the LSU AgCenter. A certified educator for over 20 years, she provides research-based programs to help families make healthy food choices and stay active. For program requests or questions, contact her at 318-872-0533, estockton@agcenter.lsu.edu.


The Launch of Facebook and the Rise of Social Media

On February 4, 2004, a website originally designed for Harvard University students quietly launched under the name TheFacebook. Created by Mark Zuckerberg and a small group of collaborators, the platform would soon evolve into Facebook, fundamentally transforming communication and social interaction worldwide.

Initially limited to college campuses, Facebook allowed users to create personal profiles, connect with friends, and share updates online. Its real-name policy and clean design distinguished it from earlier social networking sites, fostering a sense of authenticity and trust among users.

As access expanded beyond universities, Facebook’s user base grew exponentially. The platform became a central hub for social interaction, news sharing, event organization, and digital advertising. Businesses, political campaigns, and media outlets quickly recognized its influence, using it to reach targeted audiences on an unprecedented scale.

Facebook’s growth also sparked complex debates about privacy, data usage, and the role of social media in shaping public opinion. The platform has been linked to both positive movements, such as grassroots activism, and negative consequences, including misinformation and online polarization.

Despite ongoing scrutiny and competition from newer platforms, Facebook remains one of the most influential digital entities in history. Its launch on February 4 represents a pivotal moment in the evolution of the internet, signaling the beginning of the social media era.

More than two decades later, the impact of that single website continues to shape how people connect, communicate, and engage with the world around them.


When ‘In Sickness and in Health’ Is Put to the Test

Here’s my latest Q & A

About Ida

Beginnings are tricky, but here we are—fresh page, blinking cursor, and a head full of questions. I’m Ida B. Torn, a lifelong Southerner from Kenner, Louisiana, who’s spent years working in newsrooms, design studios, and public service. I’ve seen my share of life’s chaos and comedy—and learned that sometimes, folks just need straight answers and a little laughter along the way.

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Remember This: Do You Remember J.D.?

J.D. was born in 1924 near Annona, Texas. He was the eldest of seven children. His father, Edgar, named him J.D. after the character in a book. The initials stood for nothing. According to his family, J.D. was “a prankster, and a cutup, and a ham. He always loved being with folks who he could cutup with; people who understood his humor, and all his inside jokes.” When he was about 15 years old, J.D. quit school to help his father run the family farm. When the United States entered World War II, J.D. wanted to do his part, but he felt his duty was to help his father provide for the family. From 1941 until July 1944, J.D.’s family could tell that his decision was bothering him. J.D.’s sister Joyce remembered that J.D. had “been acting like he had something on his mind and he was real edgy, which wasn’t like him because he was a pretty carefree, happy-go-lucky kind of guy.” Later that day, July 21, 1944, J.D. enlisted in the Army where he became a paratrooper. J.D. spent months in heavy combat. In January 1945, he was injured while fighting in the Rhine Valley, the final major barrier between the Allies and Germany. When he learned he was to be awarded the Purple Heart, he refused it. The Army ultimately awarded him the Bronze Star for his combat duty.

Following the war, J.D. returned to farming alongside his father. In December 1946, J.D. married his high school sweetheart and moved to Dallas for better employment opportunities, along with other creature comforts such as electricity and indoor plumbing. J.D. worked at the Dearborn Stove Company followed by Sears, Roebuck & Company. After getting laid off from Sears and a failed stint at farming, J.D. decided to become a police officer. In June 1952, he joined the Dallas Police Department where he was assigned to the Oak Cliff area of Dallas.

J.D. had several notable incidents while a police officer. On April 28, 1956, J.D. and his partner Daniel Smith responded to a call in which a man was threatening to kill his wife with an ice pick. J.D. and Daniel arrived and confronted the man. While trying to subdue the man, Daniel was stabbed in the shoulder and J.D. in the stomach and right kneecap. Despite their injuries, they arrested the man and received treatment at a nearby hospital. Five months later, on September 2, 1956, J.D. and officer Dale Hankins stopped at a bar called Club 80 for a routine check. While there, J.D. recognized a man from a wanted poster and asked him to step outside. The man stood, pulled a pistol, pointed it at J.D.’s face, and pulled the trigger. Snap! J.D. and Dale pulled their pistols, fired multiple shots, and killed the man. Luckily for J.D., the man had failed to take his pistol off safety. J.D. received the Meritorious Award and a commendation for his “outstanding judgment and quick thinking.”

Seven years later, J.D. was on patrol in the Oak Cliff area when a police dispatcher provided the details of a shooting suspect. At about 1:15 p.m., J.D. saw someone who fit the provided description near East 10th and North Patton streets. Based on eyewitness accounts, J.D. spoke to the suspect through his passenger side window briefly and exited his car. The suspect pulled a pistol, shot J.D. four times, and fled the scene. A passerby used J.D.’s own police radio to call for help, but there was nothing anyone could do. After 11 years as a police officer, J.D. Tippit’s final shift ended at that intersection where a memorial plaque now stands, but it led to the arrest of the man who killed him, the same man who, just 45 minutes earlier, had killed President John F. Kennedy.

 

Source: “J.D. Tippit, Brother, Husband, Father, Friend,” JDTippit.com, accessed January 18, 2026, https://www.jdtippit.com/happen_nov.htm.


Notice of Death – February 3, 2026

Jimmy Ray Brown
May 1, 1941 — January 31, 2026
Visitation: Wednesday, February 4 from 5:00 p.m. – 8:00 p.m. at Mitchell Baptist Church
Services: Thursday, February 5 at 11:00 a.m.at Mitchell Baptist Church

Lue Cindy Pratt
04/14/1946 – 01/26/2026
Visitation: Friday February 6 Jenkins Funeral Home Chapel
Services: Saturday February 7 at 1:00 p.m. at St.Mark B.C.

Joyce Jean Maxie – Thomas
10/27/1945 – 01/28/2026
Visitation: Friday February 6 from 2:00 – 6:00 at Jenkins Funeral Home Chapel
Services: Saturday February 7 at 11:00 a.m. at Northwest Auditorium

Deacon Alvin Mayweather
02/18/1939 – 01/26/2026
Visitation : Friday February 6 from 2:00 – 6:00 p.m. at Jenkins Funeral Home Chapel
Services : Saturday February 7 at 11:00 a.m. at Mary Evergreen B.C.

Melvin Louis Vance
07/15/1951 – 01/23/2026
Visitation :Thursday February 5 from 2:00 – 5:00 p.m. at Jenkins Funeral Home Chapel
Services : Friday February 6 at 11:00 a.m. at Mary Evergreen B.C.

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